eros

I have grappled with the question
of a lover
and would i choose the man or
human who
treats me well over the one who
feels me, ignites me-
would i choose that good over
this desire ?

And what i am finding is
the balance of those things.

It is wise to be cautious
with fire;
to have warmth and not burn,
to have light and not destruction.

To burn slowly
and not burn out,
to let the flame run its course;

and when the time has come,
to fade
to a soft glow,
to flicker and crackle

and let go.